Robert “Bobby” Alexander LMSW

Psychotherapist

Robert 'Bobby' Alexander, LMSW, social worker and trauma specialist at Darby Integrative Counseling. Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist and out-of-network insurance provider offering personalized therapy services.
Robert 'Bobby' Alexander, LMSW, social worker and trauma specialist at Darby Integrative Counseling. Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist and out-of-network insurance provider offering personalized therapy services.
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Biography

Bobby specializes in working with adults navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, self-esteem issues, relationships, career and life transitions. His approach is trauma-informed and holistic, integrating somatic awareness, Internal Family Systems/Parts Work, and mindfulness to help clients build resilience and self-understanding. Bobby works with adults of all ages and has extensive experience supporting people within the LGBTQIA+ community, professionals managing career stress, individuals in life transitions, and those recovering from trauma and substance use challenges.

His practice integrates Internal Family Systems (IFS), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Somatic Therapies, and Mindfulness and breathwork. These methods help clients reconnect with their bodies, regulate their emotions, and explore their inner worlds with gentle curiosity. Bobby has worked in a variety of clinical settings, including private practice, substance use treatment programs, hospital-based mental health services, and LGBTQIA+ support centers.

In addition to his clinical experience, Bobby has a background in advertising, marketing technology, and entrepreneurship, including leadership roles in retail and hospitality. His unique professional path allows him to deeply understand the pressures of career transitions and professional burnout. He also has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College and a Bachelor’s in Journalism from Baruch College. He is a Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) in Virginia, Maryland, and Washington, D.C.

While he earned his MSW in 2011, his career has been anything but traditional. After starting in clinical practice, Bobby followed his entrepreneurial spirit into the corporate world, working in marketing technology and digital advertising. He also built and sold a home decor business. These experiences deepened Bobby’s understanding of professional transitions, stress, and the demands of leadership. Now, with a renewed focus on therapy, he brings a broad perspective that blends clinical expertise with real-world experience to support his clients in both personal and professional growth.

Bobby was born in Australia, raised in New York City, and has lived and worked in California. In his free time, he enjoys yoga, meditation, cooking, baking, gardening, and exploring new destinations.

Specialties

Robert specializes in counseling for:

  • LGBTQIA+
  • Anxiety & Stress
  • Depression & Mood Disorders
  • Addictions & Recovery

Other Areas of Concentration

Modalities

Services

  • Individual Counseling

Age Groups

  • Adults

Here's Robert's general availability and billing information.

Billing & Availability

  • Weekdays

    • Mornings
    • Afternoons
  • Telehealth States

    • Maryland [MD]
    • Virginia [VA]

Billing & Insurance

Out-of-Network provider with all insurance plans.

We utilize Thrizer.com to assist clients in obtaining fast reimbursement for session payments. All Out-of-Network insurance plans are accepted!

Some clients have the option to pay only their co-insurance depending on their insurance plan.

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Here are some of Robert's professional credentials.

Credentials

CEUs and Trainings

  • Integrative Somatic Parts Work Levels 1 & 2; Trauma Treatment Certification; EMDR & Parts Work for Complex Trauma; Intensive Trauma Treatment Certification; EMDR Basic Training

Licensing

  • Bobby provides therapy under the supervision of Chelsea Nicole, LCSW.